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I'm 15 in a month and I masturbate 5-9 times a week. Do you think I should try and cut down? ...

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Question - (5 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2010)
A female New Zealand age 26-29, *llabells writes:

How much do you think a 14 year old girl should masterbate? Is about 5-8 times a week too much?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

You need to slowdown some. Sex will become just an act to you with no real meaning. As a female your sex organ will look worn out to your mate and we all know how guys judge females. He looks at a worn out vagina and that maybe the last time you to are a couple. Google worn out vagina and see if that what you want your guy to see when he looks at yours.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

Masturbate as much as you like. but if you start to become sore.. or start to bleed.. you must stop because it could be a serious health risk..

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A female reader, Princess_Rae United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2010):

Princess_Rae agony auntEllabells,

I am re-responding to your question, which looks like the same as yesterday's, with a very similar response. I do not see anything weird about your masturbation routine. Everyone has their own unique sex drive, and as such will desire different levels of pleasure. When I was 14, i only masturbated about twice per week, but when I was 19 I was masturbating at least twice a day. So do not be alarmed if your masturbation changes over time. This may in fact just be a faze that you are going through as you grow into your body.

However, if your masturbation is taking time away from your school or other activities then you may need to think about cutting out a session or two. Self-pleasure only should go as far you have the spare time for, and need eat away at the time needed for homework and your other activities.

Also, I would encourage you as sexually curious teenage to sit down and talk with an adult, female preferably, that you can trust about sex. If you are masturbating that often you have probably considered sex before and should talk with an adult to get a better understanding of sex and its consequences. I wish you the best luck as you grow and experience the world around you, and hope that you follow your heart wherever you go.

With Love,

Princess_Rae

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A male reader, Jeseh. Kenya +, writes (5 October 2010):

Jeseh. agony auntYou can masturbate as many times as you wish coz its normal and healthy espesially at your age.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (5 October 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntThat all depends, is it actually disturbing other aspects of your life somehow? If not, I am certain you should do it as much many times as you wish. Too much would probably be in the double digits so, roughly 11-15 times a week. That would be far to much.

I hope that helps.

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