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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years but suddenly we broke up. we were fighting a lot and he told me that we couldn't be together and the best thing for us is to be friends. I didn't want to accept it but i had to. its been about 2 months now since he doesn't call me. but he would always talk to me on the internet when he gets a chance. i asked him why don't we talk and why can't he call me ? and he said that he misses me but he can't do anything.and he said that he is scared. please help me should i continue talking to him or what?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 You need to ask him why he can call you and what he is scared of....you need to sit down and talk to him and get him to open up to you about how he is feeling its the only way that the both of you will sort this out, he needs to be honest with you darling.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Hey I want to try and help you but id like some more info.
So did he say what he is scared off?
You know if there is any one else seeing him maybe?
Let me suggest a couple of scenarios for quick unexpected break ups.
1)He was either looking around for someone and you where good until he found another one.
2)He was brewing the whole leaving thing for a long time
3)He did find someone but it backfired so now he wants you back and hes using the "Friend" thing to reel you in when it backfires.
This is not fun to hear I know but they're only possibilities and sometimes really stupid arguments are used to scene the breakup and to justify the "Cause".
Sometimes people make honest mistakes but before going on -- this one just check whats really going on before deciding.Its hard to say if you should not talk to him or not.You want him back?
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