A
male
age
36-40,
*olidus
writes: I got this girl's phone number while she was working at a clothing store. Well, we were joking back and forth texting and after a few messages she told me that she has a boyfriend. I made a joke about him beating me up if I tried to get her autograph because she said she was famous and she said "He wouldn't beat you up. He's cool with me hanging out with other people so we should hang out sometime!" This confuses me... Does she just want to be friends or is she hinting that her and this dude have an open relationship or something? All my friends, some male, some female seem to think she was talking about the latter. What do you guys think?
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female
reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (5 October 2010):
I agree with the other aunts, I think she is just suggesting friendship.
If she is suggesting more, remember a girl that will cheat on her boyfriend to be with you...will probably cheat on you before it is all over.
Don't pursue someone who is taken. It leads to broken hearts. good luck hon
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 October 2010):
Personally there is nothing here to say that this is anything other than her being friendly, was she flirting or suggesting anything? or was it just plain simple innocent laughter between the texts, i guess the only way you will know is by asking her, maybe she just wants to hang out with you as a friend. Because if she wanted more am not sure she would have told you she had a boyfriend.
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