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anonymous
writes:When I was 13 I fell in love with a 26 year old man we had sex and my parents threw him in jail even though we were madly in love so life went on and I got married had 4 children and 20 years passed I found the much older first love on my space recently we still feel a strong love for one another and I feel so torn I love my husband but I am still in love with my first love what do I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): If you love your husband and he is a decent guy, stick with him and be grateful you have him. A 26-year-old man who would have sex with a 13-year-old girl is a pedophile. You should not trust him, and you should not risk what you have for him.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (5 October 2010):
 You should realize now that 13 is very young for a serious relationship. How would you feel if one of your children fell in love with a 26 year old man and had sex at 13?
Than man you thought you knew back then was more of a dream. After 20 years are you willing to throw away your marriage and your children for a man you barely know now? You need to let go of your 13 year old image of this man and focus on what is real.... what you have now.
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