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writes:I really like my best friend. And he has become more flirty around me but I don't know if I should tell him how i feel.. It could ruin our friendship for ever. But on the other hand I just want to know if he feels the same?? what should I do??
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reader, TillyTwo +, writes (5 October 2010):
hey! same age, same situation, except my lad went to uni and i'm stuck here. i wish i'd made a move when i had the chance, because i miss him so much it hurts, and because i never just took a deep breath and went for it, the chance of it being anything more than friendship vanished and the flirting subsided and we're back to being just friends again, and it breaks my heart. no regrets, just go for it!
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reader, heart-shaped-balloon  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Actually, it might not. I told my best friend I liked him and asked him out (I actually loved him after we had an off and on relationship for 3 years and I was finally asking for something official) and it did nothing to our relationship. My other best friend admitted he always liked me and had been jealous when I got with my boyfriend (now my fiance) and we are still best of friends. In the worst cases, usually they only avoid you for a short period of time to let you "get over them" and then they come back around.. And that's pretty rare.
Be brave and confident and he won't be able to say no ;) Good luck.. And go for it. It's better to know now than to wonder what could have happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Well a relationship with a friend usually makes your friendship a little awkward if you ever break up. But if he's flirting, that definitly (terrible spelling) means that he is showing or starting some serious emotions towards you. There are a couple of things you can do. 1st you can ask one of his friends to ask if he is into you. 2nd you can show signs that your into him by hugging him, flirting back, ect. 3rd and final.. just be brave! and come straight out and tell him how you feel
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reader, Jeffro1977 +, writes (5 October 2010):
You're young and most likely in 3 years you'll never be seeing this guy again. So don't worry about ruining your friendship with him. I wouldn't tell him though, it would be better to slowly just start touching him. Flirt back some, let his emotion grow. That way if he is really just kidding around, then no harm done. But if he's into you, he will eventually pop a boner. Then you can feel him up, with a nice smile and a bat of your eyes.And if he doesn't want you touching him, then you can still back out by saying "your such a jerk I was just messing with you" next day is same old same old.
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