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writes: Hello all, So here goes, I just wanted to ask your opinion on this. Recently I was contacted by a long lost friend, I haven't seen this guy for over seven years. We were very young when we used to hang out. Anyways he wants to catch up face to face, but this is causing me some serious nerves. You see I developed a pretty bad case of acne during puberty. Its not that bad now, but I have scars on my face. Anyways I am terrified to see this guy again because Im afraid of what he will think of me. I used to be a cute, young girl when we were friends, but things have changed for me. What would you think if you were the guy, and you saw someone you used to know and they looked different (and not in a good way). I know a good friend wont care what I look like, but my fear is more internal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Everyone changes as the years go by, do you think he is going to look exactly how he did the last time you saw him? Sure we all want to look perfect, I have a secret for you... no one does, even the most beautiful people in the world have hang ups. I know it a cliche, but who a person is inside it so much more important than looks, my mother in her day was a really beautiful woman, but guess what as a person she wasn't much I know which I would rather be. Relax and enjoy catching up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Yeah he wont care. hes more intrigued by your personality than your looks as that is what has him interested over the communication youve had.
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