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writes:I am starting to find that I have no luck at all. There's a girl I have a thing for and as it would happen she had a thing for me (yes this sounds like luck but wait for it) however the day we hung out and she liked me was also the same day I found out I had a serious medical condition and needed surgery. As much as I wanted to ask her out I had no idea at the time what days I would be able to walk so I had to settle for her number which I got the next day; as she left early due to a fallout with her friend who was there. So I tried talking to her a little bit (not getting much luck with a girl who is known to be bad at texting) and found out around 5 days later she wants to be just friends. (I was told this by her friend not by her who asked her at a party). So I ended up getting my surgery which took me 2 months to recover from, I kept my talking to her short (when girls are in friend mode Ive found talking to them constantly will put you more so in it so I gave her space) now that Im healed Ive been invited to her birthday (in a week) however this girl is a rather social girl she goes out a lot so the worry of some other guy asking her out is constant.So the next time I see her which will be the first time since the night she liked me will be 3 days before her birthday at a gig then her birthday. So should I just give up? She did like me the last time we were together but she apparently lost interest so would I just be annoying her? And to be honest Ive felt quite down lately about my appearance because she is the first girl in around 4 years to be interested in me and I have faced a lot of rejection; so I might feel a bit worse getting rejected once more.
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reader, London_Boy  +, writes (5 October 2010):
hello anonymous sorry to hear about your serious medical condition but glad to hear your better
Now 2 months is a long time but you will never know if she likes you or not if you don't ask right? so far you only know that she wants to be friends by a "friend" of hers who could be twisting things. The only way you will find out is to ask her direct if she says just friends then take it you never know where it will lead and if she still likes you happy days but we all get rejected at some stage in our lives some more than others thats life.
Remember HE WHO DARES WINS good luck
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Well it was her friend that told you this and ive learned in life never to take things second hand. Ok so you have been rejected alot so you are scared of it happening again i understand that, but look at it this way if you dont try then you will never no right? So when you see her at the gig try and get her alone and tell her you like her and you would like to ask her out on a date, you will never no unless you try, you only live once so go for it.
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