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writes:Im under 16 and pregnant. Let me fill you in, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now since I was 12,i'm 14 now. Anyway, we were celebrating our 2 year anniversary by going for dinner then a movie at his. When we finished our dinner we walked home hand in hand. We got to his house and his parents respected our privacy and took his sister to another member of the families house. We watched a film and then got closer, bye bye virginity. It was so fun, I don't regret it but now i'm pregnant how do i tell my parents?
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reader, kissedbeennever  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 yep, how do you know for sure?
Maybe you should have a bblood sample tested in a lab.
if you are pregnant, stay calm and tell ou parents right away, you should'n hide this, and of course, talk to your bf, what does he think? what does his family think?
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reader, Sabriena14 +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Accidents happen. I'm 14 and had a miscarraige last year so I know how hard it is.
You reallt need to tell your mom, ahe can help you because whatever age she went through it shes been through pregnancy and she knows how hard it is. You just need to get everything in prespective.
Next time though... use contracetion
Sabriena
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 well firstly, your'e not the first girl to get pregnant at 14 thats for sure.
tell your mum now,,not later. now!.
then get on with the rest of your life, and good luck.
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reader, Mimi7682  +, writes (6 October 2010):
Awww babygirl I am so sorry to hear that, just tell them and they will help you. Although I hate to say you can't even get a job so therefore you don't need a child. But I will pray for you girl thats alot on a 14 year old.
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reader, sweetkisses-143  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 I am glad you had fun... but it was very irresponsible. You need to use protection. Now you have a baby on the way. I made the same mistake. I was 15. But you know what? I now have a beautiful 6 yr old boy. He is healthy and happy and has a great Dad and roof over his head. He is the love of my life. I got myself a full time job, went to school full time, graduated 6 months ahead of my class with a 4.3 gpa and took care of my baby. You need to tell your parents. Your baby needs special care especially since your so young. If you don't think you can keep your baby give them up for adoption. Its better than not having her. You will regret it for the rest of your life.I had friends get pregnant the same age as me and they got an abortion. Including my mom when she was 15. She regrets it everyday. She wanted me to get an abortion I said no! I fought for my baby everyday. Now when she looks at him sleeping she will cry saying "I can't believe I ever tried to get rid of my grand baby I was so foolish."Its your child, not your parents. Stand strong. Hopefully they will be supportive. They are going to be very upset. Mine were trust me! But you can do it. Don't be another statistic at the age of 18 with 2-3 kids and a highschool drop out. YOU CAN DO THIS!If you can have sex, you can be big enough to sit them down and tell your parents. You just have to let them know its something important. That it can't wait. And that you need to talk now. Don't let this baby suffer for a "one night of fun." The baby didn't ask for the situation, so don't let it be the one to suffer.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (5 October 2010):
 If your sure your pregnant you just have to sit them down and tell them. They will be angry at first, but at least they will help you, if your planning on keeping the baby. Let us know how it goes.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 October 2010):
 You could just print out this page and show them. Which test did you take?
Didn't you already think about this possibility when you went ahead and said 'bye bye' to your virginity? It's part of being mature, if you are old enough for sex then you are old enough to handle the consequences, including having to notify your parents.
The NHS has some resources for you, and Childline would as well. Here are their links: http://www.childline.org.uk/ and tp://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/2330.aspx?CategoryID=54&SubCategoryID=138 [you'll have to copy/paste that last link as the ? interupts the hyperlink]
Just sit your parents down and tell them that you are pregnant. There's really not an easy way to avoid doing so, as if you really are pregnant, you will start to show at some point. And as Eyeswideopen points out, it is important that the baby receive good pre-natal care. Nutrition is vitally important now.
Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 October 2010):
 I'm so glad you had fun. Verify that you are pregnant then tell your parents ASAP so the poor little baby can at least a modicum of pre-natal care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): get a test done to verify and then tell ur parents. its imperative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Well, you have to tell your parents, especially because at 14, you won't have access to the help you'll need on your own.
Tell your parents that you're very in love with your boyfriend, and as a part of that, you had sex and lost your virginity. As a result, you are now pregnant and wanted to let them know. It's going to be difficult, because most parents don't like hearing that their 14-year-old daughter is pregnant.
However, DO NOT tell your parents that you are pregnant unless you are absolutely positive that you are.
How do you know that you're pregnant? What kind of test did you take to determine it?
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