Did he like me? Or just like staring at me?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Im a 21 year old girl,i met a guy (he is 26) at my work place ( its a very small company with 15+ employees , he is the owner of the company),our cabin is very small one ... from the dayone i joined the company, i found this guy starring at me. He used to stand close to me everytime ,i can even feel his breath on my neck when he comes near me, once i felt his beard brushing against my cheeks.He keeps looking at me all the time,when i try to face him he turns back.. my friends used to say he's around me and looking at me all the time, i acted as if im not intrested on him initially.. my friends also tell me that he has never helped anyone up there as he did for me in the company!!. This special kindness towards me made me fall for him.But my few other friends also warned me that he is big Flirt and not a man who's seeking for a real time relationship so they told me not to create any feelings for him.But I'm a human i cant control my feelings, I started to like him now. Whenever i dress nice he used to comment that i'm beautiful and he looks at me in a different way from top to bottom, especially when i wear low neck tops and tight jeans. Whenever he enters the cabin he waits for me to wish him if i dont he comes and tries to start official conversation (which may not be very important). Things were going smooth i had some personal problem , this guy found me not well and spoke to me tried to solve my problem voluntarily.. and we both exchanged our phone numbers.. became very close.I do a little fight with me all the time and he too likes it.i act kiddish with him, he even calls me baby girl all the time.Finally since my performance was not well i was fired from his office.Since he was the boss i asked him the reason.. he said give your "targets for the company" i'll take you in.. I got angry why this guy speaks like an idiot.We both talked over the phone after i left the office and finally one day he told that i speak a lot over the phone, so asked me to just convey the message and end the call. Next time he was angry on some one and showed it on me over the phone, he apologised by calling me after sometime and explained me. then i stopped calling him and texting him. i sent him a text after getting a new job he replied "Good news" that was the last text i got from him. Does this guy loved me or just looked at me for time pass?? Is this infactuation?

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