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writes: my boyfriend wants me to give him space, we have been through quite a lot together emotionally and the last time we had a break i found it incredibly difficult to not talk to him. my friends told me i should block him on fb just to give me a peace of mind since i cant stop checking his account to see what hes up to. i decided to block him this time. is this immature? iam only doing this for my own mental wellbeing, i look at his profile every chance i get to see what hes up to and now i feel a lot better,. i hardly cry and dont think about him as much. is this a good idea? do you think this would make him angry and not want to ever talk to me again?
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reader, audrey21 +, writes (12 October 2010):
i am going through the same thing as you, my boyfriend wanted a break a week ago so out of anger and because i didnt want to be stalking him i blocked him on fb, my email, and his number, it only took a few days for him to be calling upset about it. now we are still on the break. but it is best so that you give him this "time" that he needs and you know what if he doesnt initiate the contact with you then forget it and move on! you and I cant wait around forever!! good luck girly!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 October 2010):
If it's making you feel better, you should definitely do it. If he does get upset, just remind him he was the one who wanted space.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (5 October 2010):
Yes if it helps you, just maybe send him one message tell him why your blocking him, and its not because your mad at him but because your taking his word, and having a break. :)
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reader, Cccc +, writes (5 October 2010):
No its fine and YES its much better that way if you are going to obsess about him over facebook.
If he wants to talk to you he would probably phone you.
Its hard to keep of their profiles when youre in front of a computer...
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