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writes:Okay this gets straight to the point. How do you get over a guy you've liked for the last 5 years? I just want to get over him now and move on, but it's hard and I think it would help to hear other peoples ways and it may just help me get over this guy! ^^
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reader, Princess_Rae  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 MeShell,
I all can say is that comes with time, there is not sure fire way to null the pain in your heart without causing damage. Just don't let yourself dwell on him, even if he has that much of your heart. I hope you get to feeling less in pain soon.
Love
Princess Rae
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reader, MeShell +, writes (5 October 2010):
MeShell is verified as being by the original poster of the question I loved him and still do.
And Princess Rae I love the whole fire thing....but lol we all have our crazy about fire addictions...but I don't think I'll try that...I just want to get over him. I know my love for him won't ever go away. I just really want it to fade away and less strong so that I can see other opportunity and not get upset when I see him with someone else.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Well did you only like him or loved him?
Its not easy to get over someone you loved!
But its definitely a huge part of live...if you haven't cracked open right in the middle feeling numb depressed and hopeless because of the breakup then id say its pretty easy to get over someone.
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reader, Princess_Rae +, writes (5 October 2010):
MeShell,
I find that getting over someone is different for everyone and for different partners.
For example my first break up, it was talking to friends and crying a lot that got me through. I eventually found another and when we broke up, I only needed to focus on my work, school at that time to get through. My third break up was caused by a career change, I joined the military, and that helped me focus on what I was doing with my life.
I had a friend once tell me that her favorite thing to do after a break up was write the name of her ex on big sticks and then build a bonfire to dance around so that she "could release the old and begin anew". I think she just likes fire personally
So hopefully you find your own unique method of beginning anew, preferably with out the fire, but it is up to you to move on with your life.
Love,
Princess Rae
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