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writes:Recently a girl who i know from work (She left that job some months ago but we stayed in touch) broke up with her boyfriend of 2years. Then less than 5 days later she starts texting me and speaking to me on facebook a hell of a lot more than she used to, and before long we had met up and she even bought me lunch.Now although im 19 im still a virgin (a fact which i hate)so i dont really know what to think here. I mean 5 days after coming out of a 2 year relationship? while we worked together everyone said we would make a really good couple but still... i just dont know why shes doing it so quickly after ending such a serious relationship. I mean you'd think she be pretty devasted wouldn't you? again ive never had a gf so i know pretty much nothing to be honest :(Plus theres the way i feel. Ive wanted a gf for so long and now that it might be about to happen im getting all nervy and feel like i dont want this! God knows why... should i give this a miss, or am i just being over-sensitive and over analysing this? any thoughts and advice would be welcome. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): just be careful, dont get hurt, and be careful she is not using you to get the ex jelous, but when my ex left me, took me a good two years to get over my man, lost weight big time, went into myself really suffered, was not even interested in the opposite sex, was well low, so just be careful you dont get your heart broke, she could of even been looking for a way out of her other relationship, there is that, just be careful on this one, good luck to what ever you decide to do.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 No id say the way shes coming on is WAY to quick!She is in my opinion on Rebound!
Or Maybe she just wants to get to you to make the EX jealous!Youre a virgin and sleeping with this girls probably gonna get your heart broken!
Being a virgin isnt bad at all not even at your age!
There is just no way that people get out of relationships and are good to go on with the next 5 days after! That just doesnt work.
Test the water dude Id say 6 months of being friends until you take it further from today onwards.
Check if shes keeping contact with the EX and if shes taking pics with you where shes all over you kissing etc then id say dont fall for it.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 I say go for it but take things slowly. It is possible that she isn't over her break up, but it is just as possible that she's been looking for an out for a while and has already moved on. If she seems into you, and you like her, then go for it! It will probably be a little hard, especially if she wants it, but do your best to wait a while before getting sexual with her. You want to make sure she's over any break up issues, and sex will lead you to become more attached, thus hurting even more if she would break up with you. Take your time. Have fun. And good luck!
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