A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and she moved in with me about 4 months ago, she has no job dose not go to school and I have to pay for evrything includeing my pot that she smokes, iv bugged her scince day one to get a job and or enroll in school but she's maybe filled out 10 applications tottal in the 4 months and took her sweet time enrolling in school to the point that she was past the dead line and has to wait untill next semester starts.she also does not have a drivers licance and i've been bugging her to study the drivers handbook but she has read like 10 pages in the past 6 months, is their anything I can do? it really bothers me because I work 40+ hours a week and as much overtime as possible but I allways run out of money paying for bills and food and never have money for myself :( what should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 You need to tell her that she has to start paying her way because you are not going to do it anymore, simply tell her that if she wants to live there then she has to pay half of the rent half of the bills and buy her own food. I know it sounds harsh but tell her you just cant afford to be giving her money, she should be out applying for jobs every single day, but you see she is settled now and knows that she is ok because you are paying the bills so she cant be bothered anymore dont let her walk over you like this put your foot down and tell her enough is enough that if she cant get her own income within a month then you have no choice but ask her to leave. Its harsh but true good luck.
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