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writes:My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????
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reader, neil76  +, writes (23 October 2010):
I would go for it, as long as he's happy and will still be your primary focus in the relationship. In other words, you're not planning to leave him for this big breasted stunner. As a guy, it would never worry me if my gf was with another girl on that basis. Have fun x
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reader, turbine  +, writes (7 October 2010):
Later on your boyfriend might start pin pointing at other passing girls and suggest you for more three somes which will certainly hurt your ego. Your asking for more will give him a licence to be infedile.
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reader, turbine +, writes (7 October 2010):
You asking for a girl might excite him but in the long term it will make a drift between both of you. You may later on ask for an extra male and it could hurt his ego. Humans are never satisfied and later on you might want to go for an orgy! The best kind of a relationship to have in a civilised society is a twosome. Anything more than that is uncivilised and animalistic. So curb your desires and just be happy with what you have.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (6 October 2010):
 Well try talking to him about it, approaching the subject gently, as it were. Conventional wisdom says that a man will not turn down an FFM (though conventional wisdom isn't always right).
Still, pay attention to what @person12345 says below - 3somes can be bad for relationships in the long run.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 October 2010):
 I generally feel like threesomes are kind of like relationship suicide, but if it's something you both want, it shouldn't be a problem. The one thing worrying me is that it basically sounds like you're using a threesome as an excuse to sleep with someone else, which can't end well. But if your boyfriend is OK with it, then it will probably be fine. Just make sure that if he says no, you drop it. If you try to talk him into it or pester him into it, then it can really only end badly.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 You talk to him about it. What is his opinion?
If he says no, then you need to respect that I am afraid. If big breasts are a turn on you can watch some porn with big breasted women instead.
Here is a link to another question about threesomes that I answered, maybe it will help give you some inspiration.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-a-threesome.html
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