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writes: We were spending a lot of time together and I was starting to like him so I went ahead and asked him out. He said I was cool but he didn't want to be in a relationship. I said that was fine and didn't bring it up again until he started avoiding me and I told him it was not a big deal and he didn't have to avoid me. I gave him a lot of space so that if he wanted to avoid me it wouldn't be hard but now it seems like he keeps coming around me again a lot though he says he's not interested and was acting like he didn't want to be around me.What's going on? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (5 October 2010):
He probably thought about the idea, mulling it over in his head and somehow, he started developing stronger feelings toward you. Maybe now he might be interested.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): In my opinion, he's just uncertain and this is evident by the game he's playing. If I were you, I wouldnt bother with this man as he's not being straightforward with you. He says things but his actions speak otherwise and if you like a guy and are honest with him about it you deserve to have someone be honest with you and reciprocate that back through both words and actions. Good luck.
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