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writes:I need help i have a guy situation. Well ill start off saying im a young girl and i like older guys because i assume they would treat me better and have more values. Well i was dateing this guy back in december to febuary and after we broke up i started hanging out with his bestfriend well me and him went on one date and knew there was chemisty and we plannd on goin on another date that week but he complety ignored me till about a month ago and he said he ignored me because my ex told him too. Well me and spent a weekend with eachother unknowing it was gonna be that long after words i didnt get a call or anything. It drove me to the point to contact him and see what was going on and he only replys i havent been home or im busy we will talk later. Well anyways i grew these feelings for him but it seems he doesnt like me as much as i thought so today i wrote him and said we cant be friends and how i grew feelings and dont want to look like a fool. Well what i need help with is do you think i did the right thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): mmm seems to be u developed feelings for this guy quickly and sometimes that can be a red flag for us fellas as desperate and needy. I say that with respect tho. In fact, I think its good u go after older guys for maturity (not that Im anything special lol) but still. Youve shown ur interest and now its the waiting game...if he contacts you and u feel good vibes ask him out again.
This guy feels u want a relationship and his excuses like im not home or away etc could passively aggressively indicate hes not interested in a relationship. If thats the case, I find the dude immature and should be more direct with you. You wre honest with him and thats a plus...but if he plays games, dont chase. You deserve someone up front about their feelings and intentions. Good luck.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Being honest is always the right thing. Good luck.
I hope that helps.
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