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writes:ok, am a female and i have a ladyfriend that was married,now she's not. and she calls me late at night and we talk for hours about everything.do this mean she is gay or what..i been thinking!! Reply to this Question
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reader, prodonna +, writes (3 December 2010):
prodonna is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the comments..i guess i hear all this gay stuff....thanks again..
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (5 October 2010):
Calling you at night to talk about everything makes her gay?Doesnt make sense to me.Does she flirt with you?Does she tell sexually arousing stories?As the first poster said,she might just want a friend to talk to.Find out some more then get concrete evidence about her sexuality before labelling her gay.
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reader, Princess_Rae  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Prodonna,
You really need to sit down talk with your friend. I am going out on a limb and guessing that she is not a lesbian, unless you spend hours on the phone discussing sex in graphic detail. In that case you would probably already know or at least believe her to be a lesbian instead of asking a pool of strangers. If you are unsure just ask i am sure that she will at least have an answer. I think, however, your friend is lonely, not lesbian, and in need of companionship especially given her recent change in marital status. She is reaching out and as you pick up the phone she keeps the connection alive for as long as she can.
The other reason you need to talk to her is the late night calls. Unless you are happy to take these calls, they are imposing on a personal boundary that you need to discuss with her, I recommend telling her you enjoy the conversation but would prefer a respectable hour during the daylight to have these conversations. Hopefully your friend will understand a stop call you during the night, I wish you lock in talking to your friend and finding out what is really going on.
Love
Princess Rae
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Why does that suddenly mean she's gay? It could be that she just needs a friend to talk to and she likes talking to you. That does not instantly mean she is a lesbian. It is best not to assume such things unless something else happens such as, she stares at you for prolonged periods of time with a smile on her face or, she might find excuses to touch you. Those sort of things. Conversation just means she is your good friend.
I hope that helps.
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