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female
age
36-40,
*exy tasha
writes: this man i been dealing with for about 2 months make me fel so good and happy i wanna spend all my time with him and i want him to spend all his time with me, we like being with each other and it may sound wrong but he been staying the night for about a week in a half. i havent been in a serious relationship in a while and i feel like im holding back im thinking im holding back because my daughters father is coming home from prison soon we wasnt in a relationship but we have talked about when he comes home we sit and talk, but now that this new guy is in the picture im having mixed feeling i want to start a relationship with the man in my presence now but what if when my baby father come home i start wanting him! i dont know wat to do or feel. this man im talking to now is having his first baby on the way to someone he dont want to be with.. what should i do? how should i feel?? im so stuck. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 October 2010):
I think that if this guy makes you happy then that's who you should be with. If your baby's father is just getting out of prison, chances are he's not going to be the best role model for your child. He's also very likely to end up back in there with recidivism being what it is. I think your best bet is to stay mostly clear of him. Be cordial if he wants to see your baby, but beyond that I wouldn't suggest pursuing a relationship with him.
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