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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't understand this guy's behavior at all. It's so contradictory. One minute I think he's into me, and the next minute....not so much. I had a date with him last week which went pretty well IMO. It was a typical first date. Short and sweet. Through out the date he talked about places we can go in the future. Restaurants, movies, the usual things. The thing is, I don't know if he meant what he said, or if he said them because he felt like he should or what. It's been about a week since the date and we have talked a few times. They weren't long conversations, maybe 15-20 minutes 2 or 3 times. He did mention going out to the place he talked about, but didn't set a date on it. Which makes me think it could have just been small talk. Do you guys think he meant going out again? Or just randomly talking? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 No if am honest i think he will go out with you again, dont rush in to quickly in thinking that he is just being polite and he is not interested because you are digging a worm in to your brain that will keep wriggling around asking what if and is he telling the truth...and this is a bad start to dating.
Try not to over analyze it and think to far ahead just enjoy each date as it comes, you have spoke 2 or 3 times this week and in my head this is normal and if he wasnt interested he wouldnt be talking on the phone to you. He is probably just taking things slowely as most people do after the first date, am sure he will ask you out again within the next few weeks and if he does go out and enjoy yourself and his company. Goodluck.
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