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writes:Do you think it is possible for a guy to be capable of being just friends with a girl he's known for more than a year when all they do when they hang out is have sex, kind of like a friends with benefits?Wouldn't it be hard for the guy to be just friends with her or would he rather end it completely, and why?Also, how do you think the girl would go about ending it?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 I think he would end it . Because that's the way it usually goes. They call it Friends with Benefits- but it's a figure of speech- generally the benefits parts is much more prominent that the friends one.
If a guy has been hanging out with a girl for over a year , and all he wanted was sex, why now should he be interested in conversation, pursuing common interests, exchanging emotional support, and all the things real friends do ?
He has had over a year to get interested in the girl as a person.. and he never did . So,most likely, what he cared about was having access to her body, and, once this access is denied, he will loose interest altogether.
As for the girl, I suppose she just has to say : what we did together was fun, but now I won't do it anymore , because I realized I want different things in my life- ( or,"I want a different kind of relationshipo " or "I have other priorities right now". Something to this effect ).
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