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writes:Ok, so I am having a difficult time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sexual encounters before. She is the first person I have had sex with and I know that she has had sex other men (not many, just one from a serious relationship and one not).Now, it make me feel "weird" when I think about the fact that she has been with other men. I love her and do not want to end a relationship that is so amazing for something so simple, yet I don't know how well I can handle the fact that I have not had sex with other people.I am just having a hard time knowing about to think about it..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): honestly, im a girl who had sex couple of times and i took my boyfriends virginity.. if you wana get inside her mind, i will tell you right now... she loves you a lot.. thats if she shows that she cares about you.. do NOT let her past ruin you guys! your relationship is blessed and it seems like you really do lover her a lot and i bet she does too... so what if shes more experienced than you? be happy she was honest enough to tell you about her past... so dont shatter her heart by telling her shes been around too much... just try not to think about it as often and spend as much time as possible with her..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Hey my good man! You are not alone! I was once in a similar position!
You are normal for thinking this as others have as well. First, she does indeed seem to be the relationship type girl so thats nice. Im sure you feel a little awkward knowing she has a little more experience than you. Dont get down! That gives you plenty of time to experiment and find new things she likes and given she hasnt had many partners, 2 from what I count, theres plenty of stuff you can try together to explore a little!
Also, look at her past experiences as that they led her to you. Youre all that matters now to her man. Forget the rest and look to the future. Believe me, its not worth ur time or energy to think about. Look at the big picture here. Also, she probably doesnt care about your lack of experience. I'll just tell you my first time was with a very experienced woman and she didnt care in the slightest, in fact, she felt a little privileged and even tho I paid her lol I got a nice, pleasant, intimate experience and we had tons of fun. Head up man! You have lots to look forward to! :)
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