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writes:Well, I have a crush on my aunt(married my uncle non blood relative)it started years ago when I was thirteen and she came down in a robe with no clothes on then the phone ringed while she was changing her clothes she had a bra and underwear on and she basically had her entire robe open while she talked to me. And then from there it has just increased like secret phone calls, txt, visiting her at work, she secretly looks at me when my uncle is around. Well,basically I am an adult now and I thought my feelings will go away by the time I was an adult and I have tried believe me I have but I always end up falling for her sometime I actually believe Im in love with her lol. We always fall back into the same routine and all the lies. We havent done anything yet but I feel that emotions are builting up and getting to that point soon. I have been fight these feelings for years trust me I know its mortal wrong but I really cant help myself. Trust me I know its stupid but she is special and important to me. When she gets upset I get upset and I can tell how she feels by her not even saying a word. My uncle is a good husband and father but is just bothers me how he makes her upset. Like last month she was crying and i went out got some gifts and when I went to kiss her on her cheek goodnight I kissed her lips by accident but I aimed for her cheek so i think she moved her cheek to kiss me but we havent spoken about it she acts like nothing has happened. So im at the point where I want to become physical with her nt just emotional. So my question to you how is the best way to do that. And yes I have had our relationships but never worked out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks you for ya'll replies. I took her out to lunch and we had a nice time and I asked her did she love my uncle she said yes, but her eyes were dilated when I was talking to her. She also told me that they (my aunt and my uncle) dont talk like we do(me and her). So, right now I dont know where we are at. It is up to her and what she wants. I just want to see her happy and if she decides to stay with my uncle I will respect her wishes. If she wanted me to follow her to the depths of hell I wouldnt hesitate to walk beside her. Whatever she chooses in life I will always be there to support her. I love my family, but I love her more. So, thanks again for your replies. I know its wrong, but can you really help who or what you fall in love with?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 If she did in fact do what you said she did, she is being unfaithful to her husband and you have to know whether or not she still loves him. If she does not love him, she should know to leave him otherwise there will always be lies and I suspect that there has already been enough deceit. If you two wish to be together, set things straight so at least there shall be dignity and no distrust between anyone when you two reveal your feelings for one another.
I hope that helps.
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reader, cmsl  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 well thats not the weirdest. Now i cant give you much advice on the subject only to say that u need to ask yourself one question; do you want to risk actually starting something and possibly ruining any relationship you may have with your uncle and possibly other members of your family, now that said im not trying to give you an anxiety attack im simply saying that the situation you're in is a hard and difficult uphill battle.
Im sorry to say it but im not sure you have a whole lot of options.
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