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writes:hi i am 25 years old..i got married last year and my husband as well as his family is really nice.i am all happy n good..i went against my dad and married and he doesnt know yet..he dindt want me to marry him coz he isnt of the same proffession as i am..and didnt even want to meet him.so i took this step without his knowledge.he calls me up everyday as he is abroad and doesnt know that i am with my husband.i hate lying to him anymore but i love him a lot so i cant hurt him to.i lost my mom about 4 years back.he doesnt understand me i feel and thats the reason i took this bold step..what should i do..?inspite of my love in life i am still depressed and frustated.please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Well first off i understand why you felt the need to lie to your dad, but you are going to have to come clean to him, i no that you are scared off hurting him but darling the longer you keep this from him the more it is going to hurt him that you lied to him. He is your father he should love you no matter what, yes he will be angry at you probably more so for lying to him for this long, but hopefully through time you can show him how happy you are and how much you love your husband, when he starts to see that your husband is taking good care of you then he might start to forgive you, remind him of the love he felt for your mother and tell him that now that is what you have, sorry darling but you need to pluck up the courage and tell him soon, the longer you leave it the worse it is going to get for both of you. Good Luck.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 November 2010):
Well first off i understand why you felt the need to lie to your dad, but you are going to have to come clean to him, i no that you are scared off hurting him but darling the longer you keep this from him the more it is going to hurt him that you lied to him. He is your father he should love you no matter what, yes he will be angry at you probably more so for lying to him for this long, but hopefully through time you can show him how happy you are and how much you love your husband, when he starts to see that your husband is taking good care of you then he might start to forgive you, remind him of the love he felt for your mother and tell him that now that is what you have, sorry darling but you need to pluck up the courage and tell him soon, the longer you leave it the worse it is going to get for both of you. Good Luck.
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