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writes:hello allmy LDR ex gf broke up with me a year ago. i havent heard a squeak from her since then and wish to get closure at least once in life. i am getting crazy thoughts regarding why havent she contacted as we were so close once upon a time.i know this sounds stupid but i get this nagging feeling that someone is using my name on facebook and creating fake profile and sending her messages to further push her away and change how she sees me (i get this nagging feeling that its the reason i havent got any call or text). i know i cant do anything about it as its out of my control (i saw a facebook profile with my name having weird breakup profile pictures and its locked, i cant see who this person is and its the only profile with my name on facebook !!) please dont tell me to not have any concern and bother about it as i dont want my ex to think anything bad about me if not meet me. what if that crook is pleading or harressing her from that fake profile?? i can relate it to some people who hated it when we dated. am i over thinking?? my thoughts are running wild but just thinking of a possibility. i cant concentrate myself in anything neither can i call her and ask!! i can atleast share and ease my feelings..what do you think about it ?? please serious answers ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): "am i over thinking?"
Damn right you are! Your hallucinating! I dont mean to sound mean but you gotta snap out of it.. SHE BROKE UP WITH YOu, which means she doesn't want anything to do with you..
Move on. Find another girlfriend and stop imagining things..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): I think it's easier for you to think that somebody has made the fake facebook thing then it is to accept your ex has moved on and that is why she isn't contacting you.
It's hard to think that the person you still like doesn't feel the same anymore. If it's really bothering you send her an inbox message but it could make the situation worse. What if she doesn't reply? You'll only feel worse and you're never going to know if the facebook thing is true or not anyway. I think it's best you move on. This girl is your past, look to the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): I think that's a wild stretch of your imagination. You can't accept that it's over and she has moved on, so you're creating a far-fetched scenario in your head.
But just to make sure, drop her a message. Tell her that someone is imitating you on Facebook. Send her the link to the person's profile that you suspect is doing it. And let her know that it's not you. Make it seem like you're giving her a friendly warning as the person could be a scammer. Express your concern. If she doesn't reply, then you will know for sure that she wants nothing to do with you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 November 2010):
I personally think that you're reading too much into this. I don't think anyone has set up another account. I think she ended things, and I think she has moved on and that's why she hasn't made contact. I don't see any reason as to why someone would bother setting up a whole fake account to get to you through her. Especially since you're already broken up.
I'm afraid that she ended it, and that she decided not to continue contact with you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 I think it's all your imagination, it's far from impossible that there is another person with your same name with a Facebook profile.
Your ex broke up with you, so why do you assume she would contact you. Some people keep in touch with their exes, but many don't . Ever.
If you are so worried about that, you could just send her a short message explaining her that you fear somebody has put up a fake profile under your name, so if she gets messages supposedly from you, she must disregard them.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Hi so you saw a profile with your name on it, ok so you think someone is using your name but this could also just be coincidence and this person just shares the same name as you, i think you might just be paranoid she may not have contacted you as she was getting over you and contact makes this hard for a person, but it is obvious that this is worrying you and cutting you up, so the best thing for you to do here is to message her and tell her that you think someone has made a fake account under your name and ask her has anyone got in contact with her using your name, this should clear things up for you. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): i asked this question people...i dont want to call her because she has let me down badly in the end and i dont feel like calling her at all as she hasnt shown any concern and ignored me like a bith in the end
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