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*achaparritax19
writes:My boyfriend and i have had sex once only. and i want to be with him again. but i dont know how to tell him. Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (10 November 2010):
Guys don't want to make the women they are with feel like they are only dating them for sex. I'm sure that's why after one time he's trying to give you some space so you don't start to think that's the only thing he's after.
But tell him you'd like to be close to him like that again and I'm sure he'll make it happen. But be careful how far you let him in; if you make it known that you really want sex, he'll think that you always want it all the time. You don't want your relationship to be defined by sex, but rather enhanced through it.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Your best bet is to tell him in the moment like dirtball said. Chances are he wants to as well but is nervous that you may fell pressured to do it.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Make out with him and whisper in his ear to take you. If you want to be lovers, then you need to learn to communicate your needs.
Tell him.
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