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female
age
30-35,
*exxiylove
writes:Dear Cupid, I'm in LDR. It's been... well, alright. Things were amazing in the beginning, but then things sorta got distance. I mean yeah we still love one another, and care. But we don't talk much anymore. Maybe 3-5 texts a day. Simple boring ones too. I like to know what he's doing to what keeps him so "busy". So sometimes i ask him "what are you up too?" He just say "cleaning, band practice (yeah, he's in a band. Not a big one, but they're making they're way up there), at the gym, ect. you get the idea. I don't wanna be that nosy girlfriend, either. Well lately, I've been a bit suspicious. He is in a band and all, and i know that "rocker life", so i decided to look on his Facebook. I didn't really find much. Just a few little messages from some girls. But then i came upon something. Some girl asked how he was. you know it was casual talk and what not. I'd also like to add something so you can understand the whole situation. (He got in trouble with his parents and crap because he used to be an alcoholic and drank and drove and they took his car from him) But anywho, the girl from Facebook asked when he was coming back down. Comes to find out she lives in a different state. He replied saying he doesn't have a car till he gets a job. Well it was about a 2 week old post, and about two days after the post, he got a job. He told her he missed her and couldn't wait to come down there. I'm so confused on what to do! I don't wanna jump to conclusions, but what am i suppose to think? I've been saving up so much of my money to get a bus ticket to go see him, and comes to find out he has a car and didn't tell me! Should i stay with him or give up? I'm so concerned. Is he cheating on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): If he's telling you he's busy, he's got a new car and hasn't told you and if he's telling some girl he misses her then yes, chances are he's cheating.
But do you really want to be with an A hole like that?
Let her have him, he's obviously got a lot of issues and if he's treating you like that then he'll do the same to her.
Find someone that respects you and will treat you how you deserve to be treated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): You are too young to be stuck in a long distance relationship especially one in which the guy is not giving you enough attention.
Concentrate on school and getting good grades, meet your friends, join some clubs, play sports, and just enjoy the single life! A new boyfriend will come in your life sooner or later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Yes, your intuition is spot on.
You can also just ask him..
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