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*icoleray143
writes:Do you think my Fiance is lieing to me when he tells me 'he dont need Porn because he's got me??
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reader, Chanice  +, writes (16 November 2010):
I knew my partner used to watch porn before he met me so didnt expect him to stop. He once said that he didnt need it since he met me but every time i went to his flat,there would be magazines everywhere & porn films in the dvd player. I still never had a problem until i asked to borrow 1 myself, he went mad telling me i was pathetic & how sad i was having to watch porn. In my experience if they say they dont need porn they usually have the biggest collection ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): I told my boyfriend i didnt mind him watching porn when we havent been having sex, but when we are having very regular sex i find it offensive. He told me that it was normally just to cure boredom, he didnt need it, so would stop. I trust him and he says he hasnt watched any since :)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 You can't adopt a "guilty until proven innocent" stance on this... not every guy uses porn.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Please do not assume that all men need porn. This is another problem porn seems to create nowadays. I feel that he may very well be telling the truth. But it depends on how much you trust him, is he the type of person to lie to you or is he and ineffably honest man?
He has no reason to assure you like this so the fact that he said something like this is probably evidence that he truly does not need porn and he shouldn't because it is not a necessary factor for masturbation, or anything really.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): This is great. Id say he's being honest. Of course, his actions should speak louder and if he's following thru on that, Id say he's truthful and youre in a nice, healthy relationship in that aspect.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Unless you have a reason to not trust him on this one I would say that he is being truthful. Not all guys need porn and there is no reason why you aren't all that he needs.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (9 November 2010):
I don't think so. I have encountered one guy in my life who wasn't into porn. I find it weird but he insists it's easier for him to masturbate when he's thinking about someone he likes who likes him back. That's coming from a 28 year old man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Probably not, my boyfriend tells me the same. I caught him watching porn once and I didn't like it one bit and I talked to him about it, he told me he'd stop and I asked if he were mad that I didn't want him to do it and he told me the same thing, that he didn't actually need it because he has me.
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