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anonymous
writes: My Relationship has drowned so badly..I'm heart-broken..Well..I loved a girl online in a social networking site for two months..I'm 19 and she is 3 years younger than me.We showed up each other and we liked each other too.But all of a sudden she added me to her Siblings list and called me as a brother.This was so frustrating.Of all the love I showed her.She paid me back with this.and she says that I'm no more her Boy-friend.Whenever I go online she messages me.But I don't reply her.This is my first-ever love but I never thought it would end up like this.Even if I feel like talking to her. I can't.How do I ever consider her as my lover again??I'm just out of control and sleepless nights have got me worse.I'm disturbed with this frustrating relationship.Please help me out.I still love her...:( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): You've never even met in person, and you've only been speaking to her for 2 months? I very much doubt this is love and even if it was the girl doesn't feel the same. I personaly don't understand how you can have such strong feelings for somebody you've only "known" for 2 months and haven't even met. For all you know she might not even be who she says she is anyway, you never can tell with the internet.
I know it's not what you want to hear but it's best you move on. Go out and meet real people if you want a real relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): You and this girl just aren't meant to be. Stop communicating with her and move on. There are so many other girls out there. Start chatting with others, and you will soon forget this girl.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 November 2010):
Am afraid you are just going to have to put this down to experience and move on, dont talk to her block her from your social networking site and move on, you will get over this trust me, if you think you can handle just being friends with her then do that but its usually to difficult to move from lovers to friends therefore distance is probably the best way here, go out with friends and chat to girls face to face and get to know them in person this will take your mind of things. Goodluck.
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