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Is this a sign her boyfriend could be abusive, or am I just overreacting?

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Question - (9 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My friend has recently started dating a new guy and he's already pressuring her to have sex. She is coming off of a hard breakup from a few months ago and shes moved on and trying to find a happy relationship again. She told me that it hadn't been two hours since they started dating and he was already asking her for sex, and he kept trying even after she said no. She isn't sure about what she is going to do but she might still date him. Isn't this a warning sign for an abusive relationship or am I just overreacting?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010):

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Thanks for the answers! turns out shes still dating him and she did have sex with him, lol. I just dont get why any girl would let a guy disrespect them like this, there are tons of guys out there who actually have respect for girls. But hey, its her life she can do what she wants

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A male reader, cmsl Canada +, writes (9 November 2010):

cmsl agony auntYou may be right it may be a sign of an abusive relationship; but the problem with signs is you can never be sure until its too late. Also if you try to warn your freind she make take offense; so if you really care about your freind and she keeps dating him then i suggest you watch him like a hawk and if he does do something abusive then be there for her in her time of need to comfort her, console her and seriously suggest she consider dumping him.

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A male reader, cmsl Canada +, writes (9 November 2010):

cmsl agony auntYou may be right it may be a sign of an abusive relationship; but the problem with signs is you can never be sure until its too late. Also if you try to warn your freind she make take offense; so if you really care about your freind and she keeps dating him then i suggest you watch him like a hawk and if he does do something abusive then be there for her in her time of need to comfort her, console her and seriously suggest she consider dumping him.

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