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writes:Theres this guy in my World Geography class. We sit right next to eachother, and we talk constantly. Our geography teacher is basically a pushover, so we can do almost anything we want in class. Lately, I think he's been flirting with me. Like complimenting me on my hair, and my new boots; always touching my leg or my arm, and sometimes I'll catch him staring at me. He's a pretty cute guy. I have two questions, Do you think he really likes me? And if you do, how should I ask him out? (I'm REALLLYYYYY shy and I have low confidence, which I hate greatly)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Yeah this guy has def interest! Movies are a good start because they dont allow a chance really to talk to another but yet u can still chat a little bit, which in most cases, is pleasant for shy people. I was shy in high school and thats why I did and some things worked out well for me. Try not to get a friend to ask him out for you. Be a little more direct...and rather think of a creative way to initiate a convo. After all, he prob expects a girlfriend of yours to come up to him and say hey do u like my friend. show this fella somethin' different...Im sure he will take it as a very positive thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Im just like you, ive got pretty much no confidence and seriously shy. Ive passed up some great opportunities because i was to shy to take that next step and actually make a move; my advice to you would be to summon up the courage and at least hint that you might be interested in him. Guys are way more shy about these things than women are and are usually scared of being shot down for asking.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Sounds like he's flirting to me..complimenting and touching you plus some eye contact. Do you guys have any mutual friends?? If so then I would have your friend let him know that you really like him, then see if he asks you out. However, if you don't then it looks like you're going to have to do it yourself. Just ask what he's doing Friday night, see if he wants to go to the movies or go eat after school. You know he's probably wondering the same as you and just as shy.
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