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writes:I have recently got talking to this guy and he seems sweet and genuine but very forward. He regularly brings up the conversation of sex even tho we havent met yet. I am still a virgin and know that he isnt. Im worried that he is only interested in sex even though he says he isnt. Do i meet him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): I personally wouldn't go out with a guy who talks about sex before we even met. I think the right time to mention sex for the first time is after a couple of months of dating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Hmmm... in my opinion i would be a little cautious if he is so focused on sex but i suppose it couldn't hurt to go on one date. Also, if you've never met before and you met online make sure you let someone know where you're going because you never can tell these days. When you meet in person his actions may reveal a little more about his real intentions.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (9 November 2010):
 I think you should only meet him in a public place. If he has brought up the subject of sex then he may well assume that a meeting will involve that. I think if you do meet then you should make it clear that you want to take things slow. If he persists in raising the subject of sex when you meet in person, run away fast. It would suggest that he is only interested in that, rather than you. If he cannot talk about any subject other than sex then he will become very boring company for you very soon. Be careful!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 No harm in going on a date. You can let him know that all his focus on sex is a real turn off. Usually that much focus is a bad sign though. FWIW, you may want to pack it up. Then again, any guy that forward is at least being forth coming and fairly honest. He may be interested in more than sex, but all his focus tells you something else.
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