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30-35,
*weetyyyy
writes:I have got engaged since 6 years back..and i love him crazily.he have got a lot of girlfriends, he talks with them, he calls them and he flirts with them on facebook.it hurts me.and also there is a girl who flirts with him.and 2 months back this girl she came and told me you leave him coz he is my bf he is dying for my love.and she also said that he told her i bother him, i annoy him by calling him.she said that he told her he dosnt love me..but when i asked him about it each and every time he tells me you have just seen the cover..i really dont understand what does he mean by that...but the truth is he proposed me first he said that he loves me but this girl she's telling me that he told her he doesnt love me..but nowadays he's ignoring me too.what should i do to get him back from that girl?.please tell me what to do now.what should i do to know whether that girl was telling me truth or lie.how to make him tell me whether he loves me or not..plz help me.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 I'm really sorry but this doesn't sound good at all.
You say he proposed to you and you got engaged SIX years ago. That's a heck of a long time to be engaged - unless you were very young at the time and he was waiting for you to mature some before marriage.
Now you say this girl is telling you your fiance wants HER and that he feels bothered by you when you call him......and now HE is ignoring you (this talk of "cover" is just a lot of nonsense - he was giving you the brush-off).
Sweetyyyy, I hate to have to say it, but this man has ALREADY made his choice - and unfortunately, its not you.
I think the girl is telling you the truth (even though its very nasty of her). If he no longer wants to be with you, there is NOTHING you can do or not do, to win him back. You can not MAKE someone love you and want you, when they choose not to.
And yes, I know he proposed to you in the first place. But that was six years ago......people do change their minds, you know, and he has. Rejection hurts, but if its any comfort to you, this other girl may not have him for long. You already know he has lots of girlfriends he flirts with.....I'm sorry, but you deserve a man who will be devoted to YOU and treat you with respect and consideration, and love you for who you are.
I know its hard to give up on this man, but that's what you need to do now.....
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