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writes:Me and my boyfriend are in a complicated situation. He is much older than I am and is technically married as in separated. The other day we were joking about stuff when his ex came up and I said I hated how I felt she was always just lurking in the corner stopping me from falling for him (better in the long term I know seem as he is 48 and im 17. Anyway. He had a really strong reaction and at first I thought he would want to end it seem as we've only being going out bout 3 months. Does anyone think I was unreasonable saying how I felt about his ex? He even says it's unlikely he would even go backto her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wasn't being immature, just panicking. I came here for advice not judgement
and no he doesn't have kids.
Thanks anyway.
Watch your prejudices don't stop you from doing something that could make you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): What kind of 48 year old man dates a 17 year old? Does he have kids? He could have kids that are considerably older than you!
I'm sorry but something just seems off from the very get go with a 48 year old man who dates a 17 year old girl.
Especially because from your post you seem quite immature. Something smells fishy here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThey have been separated 7 years! I hardly think it sounds like his marriage will work either. I don't expect him to divorce her I just told him how I felt because he was telling me he was almost in love with me.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Well how likely is he to hold onto you? There's quite a considerable age gap between you two. Now, if he's not going to go back to her then why not make it official with a divorce? Basically you're sleeping with a married man, so you should be afraid his wife is lurking around the corner. The only one that is holding back this "relationship" is him, because he's not going thru with a divorce. Leave the married man alone, these affairs rarely work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): I think you are being very immature. If this man is 48 and has a wife that you are feeling paranoid about, perhaps you should split and wait until the divorce is over.
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