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*ranny Girl
writes: hi, i really cry so much and i really want to no how to stop it, i alwasy cry about stupid things and i sometimes cry on the phone to my boyfriend about things, i think this puts pressure on him and upsets him. of course it does right? Please help me! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): hii...
hunny, i used to be exactly the same way. i would cry over just about EVERYTHING. like the ladies that answered this question before me said, you're just going through puberty. i can assure you that once you're finally through it (it can seem like it just goes on and on and on...hahaa), you probably won't cry as much. i used to do about ten times more than my fair share of crying when i was around that age. now, i'm almost 19, and it's gotten quite a bit harder to make me cry. soo, just hang in there. you'll get through it. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, petina1 +, writes (9 November 2010):
I remember crying quite a lot when i was that age as well. Hormones are a nuisance. It will get better. You don't want to have big eye bags under your eyes, so have a little cry then deep breaths and rinse your eyes with really cold water to feel fresh again.Your boyfriend won't have the maturity yet to cope with this.
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reader, Franny Girl +, writes (9 November 2010):
Franny Girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, I am almost 16... :) but yh, prob true
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 November 2010):
Franny you are in the middle of puberty. Your body is trying to adjust to the influx of hormones. Getting teary one minute and then seconds later being deliriously happy are just the symptoms of this very big step in development. I suggest you start taking deep breaths and if you feel a crying spell coming on then tell your boyfriend you'll have to call him back. Guys don't go through this like we girls do and they certainly don't understand at his age. Relax, it will get better, sometime around 50 years old anyway.
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