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I was warned, but I had sex with him 4 times anyway!

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Question - (9 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need help! I slept with my coworker/ friend's son. She invited me to move with her and warned me about her son. But we kept making passes at each other. The other night, we were talking and he started kissing me. The next thing i knew, we were having sex! We had sex 4 times already. I dont think he likes me. What should i do?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (10 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntWhat exactly were you warned about pertaining to this guy? Well you hooked up 4 times already, doesn't look it's going down the relationship route. I say he was going thru a dry spell and needed to get some action. Maybe you did too, no harm in that. If you want to keep him as a fuck buddy then go for it, but then again I wouldn't advise it..due to the fact that the woman usually develops feelings after a while. You'd really have to keep your feelings in check. Do what you want with it, but keep in mind it was just sex, nothing more.

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (9 November 2010):

Plexi agony auntWhat do YOU want to do?

Is he that fantastic in bed that dumping him and getting involved with another man is out of the question?

Are you willing to comprimize your relationship with your friend/coworker over this?

What exactly attracts you to him? The fact that his mother told you to be careful about him( do you see him as an exiting bad boy)?

Be strong and smart hun!

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (9 November 2010):

Exercise some self restraint and tell this guy "no". Then again, how can the guy not like you if he's had sex with you 4 times in such a short time? I don't know how old he is but the whole "hormones make guys think with their dick" phase should be about done at your age, because at that age your brain is supposed to be able to override that with some maturity.

So listen to your head. It knows what's good for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

Stop sleeping with him. Simple.

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