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writes:I really like this guy at my school. He's in the grade above me.I'm 17.We have mutual friends so whenever he greets them he greets me too. He always looks right at me when he says hi(not sure if that's a good sign or nothing). But we've never really had a proper conversation. His best friend says he's a closed person so he won't tell him who he likes. Earlier on I asked his best friend to tell him indirectly that I like him then he went to our other mutual friend to ask if I had really said I liked him.My friend told her she wasn't there when it happened and that he should ask me himself. he didn't ask me about it. If he didn't like me would he have wanted to confirm? Also maybe he likes me but still isn't sure if i like him too? or maybe he's not interested. It's been a month now since I've liked him and i'm getting fed up of waiting...i just wanna know if he feels the same way but at the same time don't want to screw things up. Should i just go to him when he's alone and tell him i like him or would that scare him off considering we don't really talk? What should i do.Thanks in anticipation:)
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 stay frens.it may be better that way.stay strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the wise words. I'm just going to move on. Not sure if i should be friends with him or not..
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 I'm sorry that it didn't work out the way you hoped. At least you know now and can move on. If he's too shallow to look past skin color, then he doesn't sound like a very good guy to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe doesn't feel the same way:( His best friend asked him who he likes and he said he likes someone else.Apparently he only likes white girls,i'm black and so is he. I kinda feel betrayed though, i wish the best friend had told me from the beginning that he doesn't go for black girls. i'm glad that i know how he feels about me at the same time so sad that he doesn't like me. He said to the best friend he'd like to be friends with me. Don't really know how to act tomorrow tbh. I actually cried when i got home:(
Thank you for the advice:)
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reader, Blod +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Yeah, I think you should make the first move. If he's a closed person then he's probably quite shy. So even if he did like you, he's unlikely to tell you how he actually feels. Telling him straight out is a risk, but sometimes it's worth it for answers :) Good luck.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
Well, I talked to this friend, who is friends with Sam, and Sam said that Fred told her that Dustin really likes you, but when Sam asked Dustin's other friend Bill, Bill wasn't sure... LMAO
Yes, you should absolutely ask him yourself. Don't play that silly game of going through friends. Private person or not he will be flattered that you like him, and may even have some feelings for you too. You'll never know if you don't put yourself out there. Good luck!
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