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26-29,
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writes:I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a couple months ago because my best friend told me he was useing me also another one of my cloesest friends hated him to death and even though she said she didn't wantme to have to choose between my friends and my boyfried i felt i had to and i did. During our break up somethings happened that ruined what was left our our relationship.. :/About two or three weeks ago I began to have these dreams about him. They made me so sad because they always show how happy we are and it seeems like we are back together, and i began to miss him and i want him back, but i can't have him anymore because he has moved on and i'm scared to talk to him because i have no idea what will happen. I have a class with him and i see him all the time. Should I talk to him or no.Also i feel like he was the only guy who ever wanted me, because guys never look at me like he did. I miss everything we had. Should i go for it and talk to him or should i just kick myself (not lit) and push through it and move on. Thanks for whatever advice you can give me. Also thank you for your advice it will be taken very seriousely. And it may affect the rest of my high school life.. BTW if it makes any diffrence i'm 15 and a sophmore in high school and my ex is 17 and a senior. Idk if that makes any diffrence but i felt i should just put that in. haha :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Nothing ventured nothing gained..so, if you can muster up the nerve, go talk to him, tell him that you realized you made a huge mistake, and you'd love to have a second chance and this time you would not blow it etc.etc.
This,though,only if you think you can handle rejection reasonably well. Rejection IS a possibility : because at 17 people move on real fast, and because if I were him I'd be pretty miffed for having been dumped not because of something I had actually done wrong, but because of what some people said about me.
It's up to you ,ultimately. If you belong to the "At least I've tried " school of thought, go ahead. If you fear instead that a rejection would let you in much worse spirits than you are now... then let it go- after all, you are only 15 and, believe it or not, there will be other boys after this.
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