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writes:I need advice regarding my boyfriend we have been together for a year and half and i still cannot get over him wanting to kiss another girl when we was together for a few months he has changed so much and loves me but i still want to hurt him so badly for him wanting to kiss another girl by boyfriend takes me out and takes so much care off me still i argue and shout at him and i make him so upset and tell him i dont want to be with him i just want to ruin his life and hurt him so much but i dont know if i should as he loves me what should i do please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): if you'll continue your insanity he'll not only kiss someone else but sleep with someone else , worse, leave you for another girl! you have to stop the drama , you're exxagerating and he's pampering you , he'll soon dump you and you'll regret it for the rest of your life!
Grow up! and focus on the love he's giving you! i would say take a break for a month then all the anger would wash away!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 November 2010):
You want to ruin your boyfriend's life over what? A thought? He didn't cheat according to your post. He didn't do anything. Don't you think that you are seriously overreacting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): I agree with her being upset about him wanting to kiss another girl, it's completely reasonable. How she found out is an important part, if it was from the boyfriend...why would he say that or even feel that way? It's time to leave your relationship as you state you don't even want to be with him anymore but rather to hurt him. This is a rather unhealthy reaction and although it may hurt, you shouldn't want to harm or emotionally hurt your boyfriend. Leave the relationship for your sake and his, and move on from the situation.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Yikes! A confused drama queen who cannot punctuate!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 I'm confused, he wants to kiss another girl but hasn't actually done it? How do you know he wants to kiss another girl, he told you? Lastly, if you're still angry with him over this and want to cause him physical harm..then I think you should walk away from this relationship. Perhaps a break is in order, you need to calm down and collect your thoughts. Just tell him you're still upset over that, then take a couple weeks or more to relax and see if you two are actually right for each other.
If he didn't actually kiss her, then there's no need to want to beat him up over it.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
 p.s. Punctuation is important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): The title said he kissed another girl but your post just said he wants to kiss another girl. Which is it? If he did kiss another girl, yes i understand you would be angry and maybe think about revenge, that's natural but actually going through with it is a bad idea and a waste of time.
On the other hand, if he didn't kiss another girl but wants to. How do you know? Did he tell you? Was it something you heard from somebody else? Need a little more info.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
WTF is your problem? All you're doing is making him want to kiss someone else more!
Let me sumarize what I read here: Your boyfriend wanted to kiss someone else once. You found out about it. He never actually did it. You pick fights. Want to hurt him badly. Shout at thim. Make him upset. You want to ruin his life... All because he thought about kissing someone else.
And you have the nerve to ask for help?!? It's your boyfriend who needs help. He needs to leave your sorry, jealous, behind in the dust. He should run for the hills and find happiness with someone who doesn't strive to make him miserable.
What the hell kind a relationship is it where your goal is to make your partner miserable?!? Do the dude a favor and leave him so he can be done with you. He diserves better. He didn't even cheat!
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