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writes:How to get a girl that used to possibly like me to like me again?Hey everyoneabout 4 years ago i was really close with this girl and she told me she liked me and i really liked heras well. I dont know why it didnt work out but a few months after we were talking and i told her i had a gf and she seemed to be under the impression that i also had a gf while me and her were close and that i was playing her. Now years later we talked the other day and she said ' we were that close then because i had feelings for you so that will never happen again, but i dont hate you dw'. Im 21 and have only ever had 1 gf and havnt touched another girl so im far from being a player.- how could i approach her about explaining that i didnt try to play her and i was single at the time?- if i just try to get better friends with her slowly could she like me again or would she be completely against the idea of liking me ever again (girls opinions would be much appreciated). Have yous ever liked a guy years later again? especially if hes grown into a much better person.i greatly appreciate any replies/opinions/thoughts on this.It has really been bugging me and i dont know why. we have barely spoken for years and i cant stop thinking about her.Cheers :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Hi well this girl has her barrier up against you at the moment, she really liked you all those years ago, and probably waited around for you to make your move, but instead you got a girlfriend and it probably really really hurt her, and she has convinced herself now that you are a player and that you broke her heart and she probably wont be willing to get close to you again.
I think you just need to be honest with the girl, tell her that you dont no why it didnt work out between the both of you all those years ago, that you really liked her aswell but you got with your girlfriend after you realised that you and her wouldnt be together, tell her you are sorry if you hurt her, but you dont no what else you can do now to get that closeness back, tell her you have only ever been with one girlfriend and that you miss her as your friend if nothing more, i think if she agrees to hang out as friends then more than likely old feelings will come back.
Just make sure you tell her this time around that you have grown up to be a better person who will understand her feelings more and ask her would she like to hang out just as friends because you dont want to add any pressure on her by asking her on a date. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno replies?:(
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