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30-35,
*shie31
writes: Hey guys! i really need your help. me and my boyfriend are both 18 and i lost my job and im needing to get my boyfriend something for christmas and i have no money whatsoever. i have no clue what to do. i cant think of anything. help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): you do now need money to buy someone a gift. Time and the heart are the best gifts ever.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 November 2010):
Join the unemployed club. I'm with you, all the way. My plan is to cook my girlfriend a meal and spoil her with massages and a bath with candles and all that stuff. Try cooking your boyfriend a meal. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach :-)
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reader, chigirl +, writes (11 November 2010):
Its the thought that counts. Most men love food, perhaps you can bake him some cookies for christmas, or cook him a nice meal? Or just write a nice letter for Christmas, or make a Christmas-card for him.
Christmas is not about gifts and money. If he's not a completely materialistic person he will understand this and not have a problem with it, but instead be grateful for your thoughts and efforts.
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reader, sky_flower +, writes (11 November 2010):
relax..its the thought that counts...he knows you could have bought him something if you still had the job..
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reader, sky_flower +, writes (11 November 2010):
look sweety..."its the thought that counts" he knows you could have bought him something if you still had a job...dont beat yourself up for nothing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): Make him a homemade cake. :o)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 November 2010):
Ok first off dont panic, christmas is not all about presents its showing people that we love and care for them also.
Am sure your boyfriend will understand that you have lost your job and that you are tight for money, maybe you could make him something, use your imagination on this one, we dont need money for expensive things when you have each other. Am sure he is not with you just for presents, so come to an agreement before christmas to not spend much money on each other, or to exchange home made gifts.
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