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He says I'm ugly then I get a text from him calling me sexy?

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Question - (11 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have to type fast so I will just summ it up a bit.. Ty for reading

I used to like this guy a few years ago, so I asked him out. He said yes to my excitement! But then it was a on-off relationship

But not the normal kind... He didn't even like me. One time i asked my friend to ask him why he dumped me the first time because I was extreMly upset. He said because I was ugly... It was horrible but I did not give up. We went out again and I was at my house one time and i was like oh I forgot my phone so I went and got it and there was text on my phone frome him and it said hey sexy and I quickly replied why did you say that!? In my head the words ugly and sexy did not match. Also every night he said I love you through texts because we were young. But he never told his friends that..........

Well that's all I can say without telling you a horribly sad story but anyways I'm extreMly insecure now. I dont even let my mom in( as in telling her things ) and I have a class with him again and it makes me cry after that class because he flirts with the 2 other girls on that class. Please help becUse I really need it...…

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

Boys at this day and age are immature and would do and say things because they want to impress their friends, its best not to get too upset about it since your both young, when you see him - hold your head up high and just say to yourself 'im better than him' just don't let him see it effects you - good luck bub xx

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A female reader, so_in_love11 United States +, writes (11 November 2010):

so_in_love11 agony auntThe boy is immature, you guys are young and that how guys your age act. they arnt emotionally mature enough to be in love with a girl yet. They will say one thing one day and change it the next. I dont want to say move on because its clear you have strong feelings for him, but just know eventually the boys will grow up and love you for who are on the inside:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

He doesn't think you're ugly. He just told your friend that, because he didn't want to reveal his true feelings to her. I think he really likes you on many levels, but those feelings scare him. Guys are like that, especially a very young guy like him. He really doesn't know how to be someone's boyfriend yet. Give it some time and see where it goes.

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