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writes: I have been with a guy for 5yrs and he always talks about sex, we have not had sex since we started dating and we had a fight over this last week. I spoke to couple of my friends about this and they all insisted it was only okay to have sex with him now since he already proposed and we have started plans for our wedding. I want to know how to prepare myself since I have never had sex before, I also want to know how much pain to prepare for during inception of intercourse
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): You shouldn't have sex until you are ready-whether that be now or the wedding night. If he really loves you, he should respect your decision. It sounds like he hasn't. Just make sure this is really what you want-the sex and the wedding.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 There is not a lot you can do to prepare for intercourse to be honest, just make sure that you have both disscussed it and that you are both happy to have sex and ready, also make sure that you have protection in and also lubrication.
Make sure that there is plenty of touching and kissing before hand and also a lot of foreplay to get the both of you going, ok so intercourse can be a little uncomfortable the first time, but use some lubrication and try not to be nervous and it will all go good, the more nervous you are the tighter you will be so it will be more painful for you, so make sure you are relaxed and horny, and dont worry its not really painful and after a few times you wont even remember that it was ever uncomfortable.
Goodluck.
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