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writes:I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Lately it seems to be me always making the effort. I always go to see him, suggest what we get up to, and annitiate sex. I am tired of it and have spoken to him about it. But he still has not changed. He never comes to my house, and refuses to come out with me and my friends. I don't know what too do, because I love him very much. We were talking of moving in together in January, but now I don't know if its a good idea?Does anyone have any suggestions that could help us, or get him to make more of an effort?thanks... Laurie Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010):
Give him space and say, "the most wonderful thing happened!"
( I will tell you what this most wonderful, wild thang is..
you have to know self and love self before you can find love. That is the only way to find who and what you are looking for.)
Feelings never lie. Gutting and true.
The worst part about being lied to is knowing you weren't worth the truth.
True love has no doubts.
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reader, MelaBoo  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 well all i can tell you is that. tell him u need some alone times to focus on what he wants first or even ask him does he want some alone time from u to see what hes gonna say! it could be that hes depressed bout something but he'll come aound im sure of it!
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