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writes:Basically, my bf [now of 2yrs] screwed me over a year ago by seeing his ex girlfriend for coffee and pretending he hadn't. I now am a bit of a wreck where trusting him with other girls comes in. I don't expect him to cheat but he has so many girl mates and they text him all the time. I don't wish to dump him. But please help me!!!!
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reader, hiro06 +, writes (11 November 2010):
Your jealously issues will push him away and plus you not trust him is going to make things worse. The best thing to do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you are jealous of his girlfriend and if you suspect somethung confront him about it and if you feel he is cheating be able to walk away from the situation. So have faith in your bf that he wont cheat and its only natural to get jealous, but just dont let it show. And also follow the advice of tennisstar88 she is right you know. Hope every thing works out well good luck!
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reader, Shygirl101 +, writes (11 November 2010):
Im going threw the same exact thing i have no idea i think if you have no reason to distrust his female friend then dont and if you do then this issue will keep coming up trust me.you have to forgive and forget or let go
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
 What exactly is your question? You don't want to dump him, but you don't trust him..this relationship isn't going to go very far with zero trust.
Your other alternative is to give him the benefit of the doubt, and let him regain the trust that is lost. Ask who these girls are that he constantly texts, if they're friends request to meet them or invite them over..
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