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writes:we were friends for 2 years and then this love sick thing came between us. I obviously was amazing. And then we eventually kissed. But then we broke up. after a month or so we broke up. And he left without giving me a reason for why he is leaving. It's been 3 years now. And i still cant get over him. There are some other friends of mine who tell me they like me but i just cant seem to get over him. What should i do? :(We sometimes talk too. And he even apologised for whatever he did but didnt say he wants to come back. I told him i forgive him and that it didnt matter, whatever he did. But honestly, it does matter. All the freakin time, im just thinking about him. And there is no way i can Love anyone else. Im sure of this. Is there any way i can get him back? :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 I agree here, three years is a very long time but you need to accept things before you can move on, you need to accept that this guy does not love you and does not want to be with you, you need to deal with that and be strong, tell yourself that you will find a new bloke that will love you and believe me you will fall in love again, you just arent allowing yourself the chance at the moment because deep down you are clinging on to the hope that you and your ex will get back together, its not going to happen you need to deal with it and move on dont sit around wasting your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): You can love someone else but it sounds like you're not letting yourself move on. Maybe keeping in contact with him is holding you back. He has obviously moved on so you're going to have to give it your all and find a way to move on too.
He's told you he doesn't want you back and once you accept that then you can start to get over him. 3 Years is an awfull long time to still be hoping he'll change his mind, which he won't. It's been YEARS not weeks or months, if he wanted to be with you he wouldn't have left it that long.
Try not to contact him for a while. Concentrate on you and your future. Do you have plans to go to college or university? Set goals for yourself, find something else to think about and work towards.
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