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Is this telepathy, real or a coincidence?

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Question - (11 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I like him immensely though I don't think we would ever get together. Leave as to why not. I'm a lesser mortal. I know that he likes me but may be not in the way I want him to. He attends, listens and is amused to see me. May be Im a temporary point of interest for him. But he is there when I need him but yet, many things keep us apart.

He himself is very distant when it comes to personal matters. And of course many men are.

My point is it has often happened to my surprise that I do meet him in my locality many places where he is not really expected. I don't really plan to go there but I happen to go there as a sudden decision and he is there... Happy to see me, grinned and left. I was so surprised as this happened 3-4 times.

Now, a more shocking thing happened. I was writing a novel in my leisure and I picturised this guy in it. It was a casual observation and as I do not know anything about his family I imagined his community, family members like his parents, a younger sister etc. And a few days ago I was talking to a common aquaintance who mentioned that he had a sister only. Now since it would sound odd I did not ask if she were younger. And he also turned out to be from the same community as I had imagined him to be. I was stunned.

It could just be a coincidence. But do you think there is some telepathy happening between us? But then why isn't he reading my thoughts?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

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Ah! I wish you spoke an eternal truth!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (11 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell maybe you are on to something i cant tell you if it is coincidence or not because i just dont no if am honest, its quite unusual to say the least, maybe its destiny and this is the man for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

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Hi aunt honesty,

I really don't know how it's been happening. But today it so happened that I was thinking of him and was walking to a place in hope of getting a glance of him from there (I know it crazy but you know!) when suddenly I decided to turn back for some dumb reason and go to where I was previously standing. And there he was! With that usual twinkle and controlled grin. Yup, too big a coincidence. But that's ok. These kinds of things happen in life.

But about the story thing coming closer to reality was too much.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (11 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntTo be honest with you am not really sure here, is telepathy something that you have picked up in your life before? if its not then its unlikely that it has just happened now through this guy, it could just be a coincidence a very big one, but a coincidence all the same, why dont you just tell him how you feel and get the ball rolling.

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