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writes:hii have been going out with someone for a few months now. he was always talking about the future me and him together. that scared me cause im very pessimistic about love i always hid my true feelings from him until about a few weeks ago when i started trusting him more and letting go.the other reason i was holding back cause he is of a different race and my parents whom i still live with dont aprove though that didnt bother me. he now is in financial difficulty and he asked me if i could lend him some money i told him that i didnt have any money either. he said ok and that he understood but lately he has become very withdrawn he doesnt phone me and when i phone him he barely talks he sounds really down. he has also stopped calling me the names of affection that he used too. is it just because he is so stressed with his money right now.. or is it something to do with me? i dont know what to do. plse helptnx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): tnx 4 the answers i did as u said i sent him a txt message saying that i was thinking about him and wished that i could help in some way.
he sent me back a long sms and then he phoned a bit later saying that he was happy that i txted him and that he was sorry he hasnt seen or spoken to me in a while.he said that he was glad im there 4 him figurrativly speaking and that he wished he had the money to come over and see me and just talk face to face. tnx 4 the advice lol
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reader, sky_flower +, writes (11 November 2010):
give him time...he may seem to think that having you as a girlfriend on this financial crisis may be adding to his stress..(YOU KNOW "WE" GIRLS ARE DEMANDING!
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reader, Alexisonfire  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 This doesn't have something to do with what you've done. Because of all the doom and gloom in the money world, everyone has been hit hard. People can get very depressed over being broke.
Even though people don't think to think it, money makes the world go around. Once you have money you can do whatever you want. He could have been saving or lost his job and is becoming very worried and you still live with your parents so you shouldn't be too worried about money.
I think you should talk to him and ask him whats up and how is he doing.
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