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*harl7802
writes:hi people I come to you in despret need. Me and my girlfriend started dating last year 27 september everything was just perfeckt until about 4 months ago her parents didn't want me to see her anymore. We still did and her parents got worse and I couldn't see her at all. So we started fighting a lot and and we seperated for 3weeks and got back again. She told her parents and it went ok for a week and is started again. We kept on breaking up and got back again it hapend twice so we are back together now. But her parents don't know and they told her she is not allowed to see me again. So we are fighting again and I want to win her parent's trust I really want be with her. I love her she is the only girl for me. And when I'm not with her It feels like my life can't go on. If anybody has some ideas in mind I would realy appreciate it thanks in advance god bless you all. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Well, if her parents don't want you with her and she still lives under her parents roof then she must obey their rules. Out of respect to her parents, you need to do the same. In a parent's eyes, no one will ever be good enough for their princess. The only way she could truly be with you, would be to move out and you two get a place of your own. Might be something to think about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): Grow a little older and wiser. You have shown complete disrespect to her parent's edict. You do not say how old she is. But her parents must have reasons for their concerns? You could try setting up a meeting with her parents asking what you need to do to improve in their eyes. Moaning and whining behind their backs is not helping when your aim is winning them back. And just wining and dining them over a meal will not help either. You need to address some serious issues, as the parents are clearly very concerned at your continued presence. Be more patient and respectful. Complete your studies. Get a respectable job. Do not use profane bad language. Save at least 10% of your salary every week and put it in the bank and do not touch it. Do you run up debts, never spend more than you earn. Do not drink alcohol ever to the point where you are drunK. Never touch drugs. Obey the law in every way. Drive safely and carefully. Do not mix with rough people who disregard those rules above. Mix with people who do obey those rules above. Maybe then you willl impress her parents.
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