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anonymous
writes:Should i be worried if my boyfriend is close friends with a girl he used to be in love with but never dated? It was before he met me and i have confronted him about it many times and he claims he is over it...but i still get jealous everytime i see them talking.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Because he met you...you don't always like the same person throughout high school, you obtain new crushes, and forget about the old ones.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 November 2010):
He says he's over her, why not take his word for it? You have no reason to question him. If it was meant to be then he would be with her than with you. Keep your jealousy in check or you'll drive him away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeahh i know... he did say he got over her sophomore year and hes a senior now, but sometimes you still question if its the truth:/ its not like she gained 5oo pounds and became a whole new person. if you liked her in the first place why would that change over time you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): I understand your feelings. It's hard to say what he's thinking or how he feels about her. But the heart doesn't get over love quickly. And if he still loved her when he met you, it's likely that he's not over her.
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