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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi there,This period of my life has been extremely trying for me - I left my wife and young son, i entered into a joint venture with my existing business, i started 4 other businesses with my partner and i met a young new girlfriend whom today is pregnant with our baby girl due in January - together with this I have been trying to balance all of this from a remote location 10000 km away from my son and my existing business although I do happen to be staying with my brother in my original hometown. On top of this I have other business ventures in the pipeline and am on a diet to trim up and generally feel better.I have been feeling so emotional and just don't know where to begin with deciphering my feelings and on top of this my girlfriend has told me many things today that are complete and utter lies in comparison to the original stories she told me.I feel like just dropping all of it - I feel like just telling her to go back home and have her baby without be because she would now probably be happier. I feel like just telling my partner just to get stuffed and I have very little interest in anything at all.I am continuously dwelling on my girlfriends past and the lies she has told me - I am just not sure what to believe anymore - she is showing me some love and I am sure its me just being negative but I am not sure how to forgive her or whether I even want to...What a mess!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 Ok first off you need to look back to the time you fell for your girlfriend and ask yourself what it was about her that made you want to be with her, am sure you will be able to get that spark back again, leave her past in the past dont start rooting up history just let it settle. If she is lying to you then you need to confront her and ask her why, you dont say what she is lying about so it is hard really to say what to do, but confront her and have a proper conversation with her tell her how you are feeling and try and work on things.
It sounds like you have a lot of pressure from work, try and not over do it and also remember you have a son out there that deserves to have a dad watch him grow up. goodluck.
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